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Thursday, November 22, 2007 

The Judge And The Victim

Human minds are complex existence of us. One part of your mind judges each and everything, from the weather to your neighbour, basically everything. This Inner Judge uses the contents of your own Book of Law to judge everything you do or do not do, everything you think or do not think, everything you feel or do not feel.

Basically, everything is subject to the tyranny of this Judge. Every time you do something that goes against your Book of Law, your inner Judge finds you guilty, which means you must be punished and feel ashamed. This happens several times a day, day after day, year after year.

But parallel to this, another part of yourself, which we could call the Victim is at the receiving end of these punishments. This is the part that suffers the rebuke, the guilt and the shame. This is part of you that says: "Poor me, I am not good enough, not intelligent enough, not talented enough, I do not deserve to be loved, I am not good enough to deserved this, etc...."

And all these come from a system of beliefs which you have never chosen in the first place!

These beliefs are passed down from one generation to next generation whatever your background or culture. It's the same everywhere. The beliefs are so strong that even years later, when we discover new ideas and try to make our own decisions, we realise just how they influence our life. Everything that goes against these beliefs makes us feel fear and questioning them or contravening them acts as "emotional poison", generating more feelings of insecurity.

Even if your personal Book of Law is wrong, it does not give you a feeling of security. Our belief system, even if not of our own choice, is nevertheless something to which we have given our agreement. It's influence is so strong that even when we understand, in principle, that these beliefs are not true, we still feel guilt and shame and criticism every time we break a rule.

In the same way, the government has its laws that control the "dream" of its society, your belief system is the law book that guides your reality and your personal "dream". All these laws exist in your head, your believe them, and your inner Judge bases everything it says on them. The Judge hands down a ruling and the Victim suffers the guilt and the punishment.

But true justice plays not part in this. This inner Judge present in every individual is wrong because this Book of Law is false. 95% of the time the beliefs are etched in our mind are nothing but lies, and we suffer from our beliefs in these lies.

Face it, life is governed by fear and there is not a corner of our world that is free from human suffering, anger, feelings of revenge, violence, war of different scales, all of which is just a reflection of a "dream" injustice. It's the same state of fear one thousand years ago, now, and it will be the same one thousand years from now. It's inescapable.

Mere T is a spiritual researcher, blogger, and conservationist. She has benefited a lot from the guidance of psychic Maria Duval in the topic of spirituality. She lives in New Zealand with her family and she enjoys the serenity of her country as it helps her to build up on her spiritual bonding with the environment. Her Maria Duval blog is Maria Duval - Psychic - Clairvoyant

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